According to the Laura J. Unger "The Houghtaling Family of Pompey/LaFayette NY " published in 1981, Elizabeth Houghtaling is listed as the 4th child of Johathan Houghtaling and Dorothea Middah.
He was born in Minisink, NJ and baptized on 5 July 1747. She was born 16 Nov 1749. They were married on 8 Jan 1769. While the ms does not list a birthdate for Betsy, it would be most likely be between 1776-9
In 1797, Jonathan along with his second wife, Hannah Cuddeback (a widow) moved with most of his 11 children to LaFayette NY.
The ms. lists Jacob? (SIC) Lott as Betsys' husband. I did find a Jacob Lott in a transcribed census for Pompey, NY in 1800.
For more details of the Houghtaling line, you might visit the following link:
http://www.geocities.com/hotalingz/Elizabeth (Betsy) (Hoogteeling) Hotaling is the 3rd great grand aunt of Andrew Leonard Lasda. Their common ancestors are Jonathan (Hoogteeling) Hotaling and Dorothea Middagh.
If I can be of any further help, let me know.
"cuzzin" Andy